Sunday, 21 July 2013

Overcoming FEAR~

FEAR has been a word that's been with me throughout my whole life. I had all types of fears buckled up deep inside and I always remind myself to stay put and not move or change a single thing in me. Most of my fears comes from scared of talking to people. I also have this fear of losing myself and also losing my friends... 

I still am not sure how I am to overcome this fear welling up deep inside, but, I guess there's always a way to make someone realize their own and make a stance to change the part of having fear to having confidence. It's quite hard though... But, I guess being able to use my smile technique towards people have made me a better person today. I guess being positive is one way. If we always think negatively, our lives won't change for the better, right? 

A little bit of sharing here... I'm not those kind of people who are great at socializing. I like to keep quiet but if and only if a person starts opening up a conversation with me, then I'll try my best to say something that doesn't sound awkward. I fear of people judging me and saying that I'm a bore. I'm scared that because I'm not beautiful like the other girls out there, people won't like to talk to me. But, after having friends that I trust, it changes me from deep within and with God's help and guidance, I get to meet more great people who are actually, praising me at times. I was glad and happy that I had overcome this fear myself and some help from others. It was great to overcome it and now I can confidently open up a conversation with anyone that I don't know of. 

Amazing right how positiveness gets you through? So, people who are holding up fears in their hearts, try to find courage and be positive about yourself and always think of the good outcome it brings. Not only to yourself, but also towards your surroundings. Adieu! 


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